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Phobia Or Irrational Fears? How To Control Those Thoughts

Phobia Or Irrational Fears? How To Control Those Thoughts

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Fear and thoughts are natural human experiences. Man can find an escape from them. Fears serve as a protective mechanism that alerts us to dangers and prepares us for a fight-or-flight response.

However, our brains can’t differentiate between real threats and imagined ones. When you experience anxiety about a situation that presents no actual risks or dangers, you may be facing an irrational fear, a concern about a non-existent threat.

But when fears turn so severe and become a cause of great anxiety and hinder a person’s daily life and work, then it is called a disorder.

Irrational fear examples can be a person feeling anxious about speaking in public, even though there is nothing to be afraid of, as compared to fear of a snake or heights. For such individuals, these types of irrational fears and associated anxiety can become overwhelming and lead to disproportionate responses.

What Actually Are Irrational Fears? 

An irrational fear is defined as a fear that exceeds the actual level of danger. This, you can say, is generated by intrusive thoughts in the mind and then accepting them as a reality. A rational fear is something to be done in the future. While it is completely normal to feel scared in certain situations, irrational fear happens when our fear does not match the threat.

Rational fears are those that help us protect ourselves, like the fear of getting burned by a hot stove. However, irrational fears, such as the fear of balloons or the number 13, do not make sense in the same way. They can appear as real and overwhelming, even though they actually don’t pose a life-threatening fear.

If intense anxiety and irrational thoughts consistently interfere with your personal or professional life, many effective solutions are available.

The connection between anxiety and irrational fears is a thing to understand that leads to recognizing the signs of irrational worries.

How Anxiety Triggers Fear and How Fear Reinforces Anxiety

Anxiety and irrational thinking can often create a cycle of fear. If left unaddressed, this can become a persistent loop where anxiety fuels and triggers fear, which in turn strengthens the anxiety. Several cognitive factors and behaviors can worsen irrational thoughts, anxiety, and fear.

Misinterpretation of physical responses is one such factor. When you experience anxiety, you can notice your heart beating faster and harder, along with an increased sense of alertness.

These responses are natural to the body’s responses to fear and help to differentiate between the two. Misinterpreting anxiety as fear can intensify feelings of anxiety.

All-or-nothing thinking is a thought process that causes people to view situations in absolute terms, as black-and-white.

The Impact Of Anxiety-Induced Irrational Fears On A Person’s Life

Irrational thoughts when induced with anxiety can affect every aspect of your life, from physical and mental health to personal relationships and professional development.

Physical health can also suffer. If a person experiences regular fear and anxiety, it can lead to numerous stress symptoms. The physical effects of these common irrational fears range from headaches to digestive problems, chest pains, elevated heart rate, and frequent feelings of fatigue.

The impact also extends to mental health and well-being. Constantly being in a state of fear and anxiety feeds a continuous cycle of further fear and anxiety but also increases the risk of developing other mental health issues. Studies show evidence of a link between chronic anxiety, depression, and disorders such as OCD.

Ways to Cope with Irrational Fears

When irrational fears begin to affect your life significantly, professional psychiatric help is a proactive step toward regaining control. Psychiatric care offers a range of evidence-based strategies to help manage and overcome these challenges.

Here are five effective psychiatric ways to reduce irrational fears or develop coping habits. Here are the support strategies:

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT):

CBT is a highly effective form of psychotherapy that helps individuals identify and change obstructive thinking patterns and behaviors.

A psychiatrist or therapist specializing in CBT will work with you to recognize the irrational fears, meanings, and causes. The person will learn to challenge these thoughts, examine the evidence for and against them, and gradually replace them with more realistic and balanced perspectives.

For example, if you are feared by public speaking, CBT might involve starting with speaking to a small, supportive group and gradually progressing to a larger audience. This exercise could help a person overcome their fear of judgment from others and break the cycle of fear and avoidance.

Exposure Therapy

This is a part of CBT. Exposure therapy is specifically designed to help a person confront their fears in a safe and controlled environment. This process begins with minimal exposure and slowly increases as your comfort and habit grow. This goal is to help your brain learn that the feared situation is not actually dangerous, thereby reducing the anxiety response over time.

Mindfulness And Relaxation Techniques

These coping methods in your daily life can significantly reduce the physiological symptoms of anxiety that often accompany irrational fears. These methods include deep breathing exercises, as well as progressive and guided meditation, which can help to calm your nervous system.

At Orange Coast Psychiatry, we are familiar with irrational fears and their reflective impact on daily life. We dedicate our team of experienced psychiatric professionals to providing compassionate and comprehensive care. We use evidence-based approaches, customized to your unique needs, to help you understand, manage, and ultimately overcome the grip of irrational fears. We believe in empowering individuals to recover control of their lives, confidence, and well-being. If you are struggling with irrational fears, know that effective solutions are available, and a supportive path to recovery is within reach. Reach out to us for any type of mental disorder that has affected your professional and personal life.

Frequently Asked Questions

A fear is considered irrational when it becomes uncontrollable and distracts your mind from the actual danger or threat. For example, being afraid of numbers or certain situations might be considered an irrational fear by most people. 

Our brains are bound to react quickly to perceived threats. This quick reaction is beneficial when we face real dangers, such as encountering a snake or a car speeding towards us. But sometimes our brain generates thoughts that are not a threat at all; rather, these are intrusive thoughts. This is why some people might experience fear when they see something harmless. The brain sends signals to other body parts and becomes responsible for a racing heartbeat or shallow breathing. 

A phobia is an intense fear that leads to avoidance of facing that object. Irrational fears can become a phobia when they start affecting your daily life. 

Irrational fears that become so intense can be turned into a phobia. Some examples of phobias are a fear of flight, heights, water, and animals. However, irrational fears do not evoke a feeling of fear. 

Fears are a natural response in humans to potential danger; for example, if a person sees a snake, they feel fear. This is a fear of death. However, irrational fears do not make sense. This fear is out of proportion to the actual threat it poses. These are generated by the mind about the perceived danger that actually is not a danger, like the number 13 or fear of enclosed spaces. 

Reference and Footnotes
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